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Yet Another Example of Asexuality Being Erased…

 They had the opportunity to include asexuality… you know, on the colour that represents asexuality… but instead they wrote ‘straight’. 


I spotted this poster at my local NHS walk-in centre. Very disappointing. 

Ace erasure and exclusion is exactly why days such as #InternationalAsexualityDay are important.

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